Difficult times

[Metaldud]

I know I don't interact on here as much as I should be, but I should explain myself. I have Pervasive Developmental Disorder, a high functional form of autism, and it has been the main stumbling block for me to socialize normally and to try to talk to girls. I don't go out very often, and when I do, I just keep to myself(if going to the 2010 Olympics couldn't help, what will?) I am undergoing counseling at a disability resource center here in Kansas, and I hope they'll help me get on track for self-reliance, which leads me to my next point.
I'm about to become homeless. My mom is kicking me out of our apartment on June 30 (she says that it's time for me to fly) and, and because I do not possess proof of regular income because I don't have a regular job (I did get a job with the casino south of Wichita, but it's only an on-call position and I can't live off an on-call only) I cannot get an apartment or even a roommate. I'm facing the prospect of sleeping in my car or worse from Monday onwards. I hope that I'm not coming off as whining, but I do hope some of you might have ideas or suggestions on how to move forward.

[Jim M.]

Do you think you could drive a truck?  There is still a nationwide shortage of drivers and several companies that will train you and give you a job.  If you work most of the time you won't need a place to live -- the truck will be your home.  The pay is good and you can "see America".  If you have a (mostly) clean driving record and can pass a physical exam and drug screen, you can likely get a job without having to compete for it with others.  Swift, Schneider, CR England and others train drivers.  Check Craigslist in your area.

There are also listings in my area for jobs on fishing boats in Oregon and Alaska.
Good luck.

[urbanracer34]

As someone with Asperger's syndrome and is also at the top end of the spectrum, I have one piece of advice; You should be fighting your mother to stay in your apartment! You need the support from her and it is NOT "time to fly". Fight her anyway you can.

[Metaldud]

Disagreeing with her is how I got the boot. I didn't volunteer enough to her liking, but at least I've been getting counseling and attending a peer support group at an independent living resource center on how to maintain employment when I get it, and how to interact with other people. All I can say is I don't want to be a homeless bum. I want to be self sufficient and socialize with people more frequently.

[dbbii]

Without knowing your personal situation, location, etc.  look on line for a Social Security Diability attorney.  A lot of them will work for no up front money.  There are various government programs that can help you out -- it's complicated.  Talk to an expert.

[Kimberly AJ]

I realized some people can't talk even though they heard the words and names. Boy, that's one of the frustrating moments in my life.

[Metaldud]

Without going into much detail, I do have a SSD case, but it may be a while before I hear anything new.  And yes, I realize there are people out there in far worse shape than I am, so I hope I haven't been coming off as complaining, but I just wanted to get some advice because with my situation, I could certainly use every last bit of advice to ensure I don't end up sleeping in  cardboard boxes.

[Believe]

Hi!

I am so sorry about all the difficulties you are going through. I am experiencing many myself. I want you to know that through it all God has been my strength. I know that may sound corny or even unreal, but it is true. Jesus loves you Metaldud. Ask Him for help. I will pray for you.

Believe